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I recently presented a workshop for a local school and we had two sessions one focussing on “The Privilege and Power of being an Educator” the other on ‘What is my Story & covering the essential issue of Who am I?”
I wish to share some thoughts on the second one in particular as it resonated with so many of the staff at the workshop.
Who am I? is such a essential question for everyone and especially the teenage boy and girl, as they strive to identify their authentic selves, as well as acceptance by a group as part of a ‘brotherhood’ that exists within boys’ schools in particular. Ideally, a place in the school ecosystem where they feel safe.

As an educator please consider the following thoughts:
‘I am more than merely me’
“You can find me in the ones I love”
“From the smiles I give, to the tears I cry”
“I ask that you remember me, As a memory inside your mind’
In closing, an authentic identity is not what you own or what you look like – it is the invisible footprint of love and kindness you leave on others.
Why This Matters Today?
We live in an age where identity is often reduced to what we own, what we wear, and how we look online. This poem reminds us of a deeper truth. Your possessions will fade. Your looks will change. But the invisible footprint of love and kindness you leave on others — that remains. True identity is not built. It is given away.
Thank you for what you do for your staff and learners on a daily basis and continue being you!
